You’re Not Doing Everything Because You’re the Responsible One.
​You’re doing it because your nervous system has a pattern.
Most women think emotional labor is “what you do” as a wife or mother.
It’s not.
​It’s an identity your body defaults to:
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When you feel disappointed
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When you feel unsupported
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When things feel out of control
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When conflict feels unsafe
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When you’re overwhelmed
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When you’ve carried everything alone
You learned this long before adulthood.
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This quiz will show you the identity of running your marriage
not the one you THINK you’re leading with.
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WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER
This quiz reveals the exact emotional labor identity driving your patterns.
You’ll uncover:
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✔ Your Dominant Archetype
✔ Your Stress Response Archetype
✔ Your Overload Archetype
✔ Your Dormant Archetype
✔ Your Motherline imprint
✔ Your Nervous System strategy
✔ The hidden payoff keeping you stuck
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✔ Your first sovereign step
This isn’t a personality quiz.
It's a somatic diagnostic built for wives and mothers who carry the invisible load.
If you’ve ever said any of these… this quiz was made for you.
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​“If I don’t do it, it won’t get done.”
“I’m mothering my husband.”
“Why am I the only one who notices things?”
“I’m tired of doing everything.”
“He acts like another child.”
“I shut down because I can’t take one more thing.”
“No one sees what I carry.”
These are identity statements, not personality flaws.
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And they all trace back to ONE thing:
your inherited emotional labor archetype.
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THE FOUR ARCHETYPES
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​The Manager
Safety through control and structure.
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The Mother
Safety through emotional authority and guidance.
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The Martyr
Safety through self-sacrifice and usefulness.
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The Ghost
Safety through withdrawal and emotional distance.
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Each archetype has:
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a payoff
a wound
a Motherline root
a nervous system strategy
a path to sovereignty​
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The quiz shows your whole sequence.
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25 Years Married.
Motherline Healer.
Nervous System Practitioner.
My name is LaShawn Woods
Coach and wife of 25 years, blending a deep marriage
experience feminine sovereignty, emotional and nervous system insights, and offering a quiz designed as a genuine step toward meaningful change and profound remembrance of your true essence:
Love and centered Peace, no matter what or with whom.
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This quiz is not entertainment.
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It’s the first step toward the version of you that stops carrying everything.
